Waiting is making me go crazyposted 1 week ago in Waiting
- 1 week ago
OP at the beginning of 2021, with no engagement in sight who do you think you will blame? Yourself. What do you think it’s going to do to your mental health? Put you in an even worse depression. Do you think you will aant to leave in that state? Hell no. You will continue staying because you “can’t” leave while withering away at the thought of not being good enough to be proposed to after 8, 10, xyz years.
Take your future in your hands NOW. Listen to your fellow bees learn from the waiting bees’ experience. Leaving him sure will sting (no pun intended) at the beginning but you will survive. When you will stop doing everything for him you will finally have the time to do things for yourself and you dearly need it right now.
You invested 6 years and think he is the one. He doesn’t see it that way and if he sees better or wants to focus even more on himself, he will leave you because you are clearly not HIS “one”. Look at his actions or inactions.
OP, you are 25. It’s time to make the big decisions. Will you continue to take a back seat in your own life and let him or someone else hold all the cards? Or will you stand up for yourself and go find what’s better for you? He might be who you want, but he sure ain’t who you need. You know it.