(Closed) Waiting, My First Post.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2385 posts
Buzzing bee

Aww I’m sorry your dissapointed; it’s so hard! My advice is not to push him too much. You don’t want him to propose simply because he wants you to stop pestreing him.

Post # 5
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845 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

What a great story of how y’all met!  I completely understand the waiting blues. The shut up pact will work, I’m sure. And it will make you empowered instead of waiting for his next move. Lots of luck!

Post # 6
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682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MLBS29:  I thought my fiance was going to propose (after almost 5 years of dating, 2 years of me bugging him about getting married) on our cruise to Mexico/Belize/Roatan/Key West, a few months after that on a mountain top by a beautiful secluded lake (I don’t hike, hate it, but we were with all his family and in our favorite vacation place (NH)), on my birthday, and on our anniversarry.  

The only thing I didn’t think of was Christmas for some reason (I thought it was cliche but I’ll never tell him!) Before he proposed, way back in August I was telling him about Kleinfelds sale and he said I should go get a dress if it was a great price!  If I had done that and then had to wait until Christmas  I would have gone nuts.  

The best advice I have is take deep breathes and believe he has a plan.  My FH promised me in Sept. that he had a plan and a date in mind because I was having a very hard time and really thinking he was jerking me around and not ready-  After that it got a little easier (though I did have a meltdown a week before he proposed)  

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