(Closed) Waiting problems.

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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Helper bee

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@FutureWifeyV:  Girl, I know. Even though it will be happening soon, I’ve been waiting so long, that sometimes I just want to tell him to just do it! It’s been especially hard lately because for the past three weekends, I’ve known someone who has gotten engaged…and none of them have been dating as long as we have! I know you aren’t supposed to compare your relationship to others, but it’s hard not to sometimes. To not feel that pain when someone else gets engaged and you’ve been waiting so long. I would say I’ve been seriously waiting for about two years now…

I’ve been waiting so long that even though I know it is coming soon, I find myself telling myself that it isn’t…I don’t know why. His sister told me she is certain it will happen by Christmas/the new year, and a couple of weeks ago when I asked him if he really does want to get married or if it just something he tells me, he said, “Yes, I want to marry you, and I am very excited to start spending our lives together. I promise that it is going to happen sooner that you think, and that you will be very happy.” Such wonderful words to hear, but almost too good to be true. I almost cannot even imagine “not” waiting!

We just have to hang in there. The days are counting down…..!

Post # 18
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@FutureWifeyV:  I went through the same thing. I wouldn’t cry, but I definitely felt my heart drop every timea song or commercial or something regarding marriage happened around me.

Just try to stay positive. And keep busy doing other stuff. It’ll (hopefully) be over soon!

Post # 20
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

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@FutureWifeyV:  I do that all the time with movies and TV shows. Especially if its something sappy or horrible with kids or animals.

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

To those of you that know that it’s coming before 2014… HOW?!?!?! seriously, I can NOT get my S/O to even HINT at a time.  He says he knows when but he won’t tell me.  He wants it to be a complete surprise.

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