- 5 years ago
Hey ladies. I just really need to rant/ purge this information i have that I’m not supposed to have, and i obviously can’t express it anywhere else. So here goes. (Major thanks in advance if anyone makes it through this whole post!!)
So I’m a waiting bee, who found and lurked this site much longer than i care to admit, but since things are actually being planned and everything, i thought it was ok to start being an active bee member.
My SO has the diamond (family heirloom) and a “date” and plans made and everything. He has gotten my parents blessing, all the good stuff, now besides picking out the setting (which he has pictures of that i’ve sent him on his phone) he’s just waiting as well.
It’s all very exciting for us, as we talk about these things daily and have been doing so for practically a year, but my mom is KILLING ME. she likes to think she is keeping the fact that there are plans and that he’s talked to my dad this huge secret, but ALL OF A SUDDEN all she wants to do is talk about our future and what kind of wedding i want, and what his mom thinks, and what kind of ring i want… so much to the extent that while we were at the mall the other day she made me go into a jewelery store and show her the type of ring i had in mind cause she “wasn’t sure what I meant.” and try them on. and get my finger re-measured. But then she will text my SO and be like “she has no clue, we’ve not said nor hinted that anything is going on.”
I also feel like she may be ruining my proposal surprise. Cause she keeps asking me about hockey, and the games, and what goes on and how long there are between periods, and what goes on during them. I can’t help but think SO is planning a Hockey Intermission proposal in front of 1000+ people from the way she keeps carrying on.
I should note im AWFUL about surprises and totally ruining them all the time, with HAVING to know whats going on, but i am trying so hard to just let it be and let it happen without asking too many questions and overthinking things, but her questions are not helping.