Post # 92
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246 posts
Helper bee
I’m sitting here, waiting for my body to get the memo as well. I got my awful news yesterday. I can’t tell you how sorry I am that you’re going through this, especially for the second time. I hope Bob brings you comfort. I’ve got my two pooches piled in bed with me. Sending prayers and virtual hugs your way.
Post # 93
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1161 posts
Bumble bee
This is such a horrible thing to have to go through…I can’t even imagine. So sorry for your loss, and you’re in my prayers.
Post # 94
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213 posts
Helper bee
Reading your post brought me to tears. I am so sorry you are going through this. I cannot imagine. Praying for you! Stay strong and positive!
Post # 95
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220 posts
Helper bee
12 weeks 2 days…
out of the first trimester, a time when I am suppose to be able to relax a little bit and not worry as much…
but there is worry. I no longer worry for my sweet little baby, because I know that my baby is back with our Maker. Worry caused by the agonizing wait…. worry caused by the anxiety of whats to come.. not knowing when or where, or what my body, mind, and heart will endure.
Even with all of the uncertainty, I know that I want this process to be as natural as possible and the thought of having to have a D&C frightens me and makes the wait that much more unbearable.
Putting on a bit of a front at times, I guess hoping that somehow I can fake it until I am really ok.. I mean, I am doing ok, but there are just moments that hit me hard and fast out of no where.
Post # 96
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1666 posts
Bumble bee
@kamielynn: I am so sorry. I wish things would move faster. I can’t even imagine what you are feeling. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Post # 97
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220 posts
Helper bee
13 weeks 2 days, has some spotting right after we DTD, but then nothing,,
Did anyone check their cervix when they had a missed misscariage? My cervix is very soft, and I am hoping that maybe this is a sign that my body has relised that the baby did not make it…. This is my last week before my Dr. wants to see me and talk about doing a D&C, and I don’t want that.
thanks ladies.
Post # 98
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1179 posts
Bumble bee
So sorry for your loss… **HUGS**
Post # 99
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1578 posts
Bumble bee
- Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club
@kamielynn: Giant Hugs. I have no words, but I want to give you my full support right now.
Post # 100
Bee
588 posts
Busy bee
- Wedding: November 2007 - Radisson Hotel
@kamielynn: My missed m/c was at about 8w, so it was a lot smaller. My doctor only let me wait two weeks because she was afraid of infection. I was also terrified of a D & C because I had a c-section previously and I wanted to try again later, and didn’t want to harm my uterus if I could help it. I took misoprostol and had a medically induced miscarriage which was not that much worse than my first natural one. Have you been monitored for infection or sac growth? With my missed m/c, my sac continued to grow despite the baby passing, and that was a concern, because my body just didn’t realize it wasn’t supposed to keep working.
I am SO SO sorry you’re dealing with this.
Post # 101
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3051 posts
Sugar bee
@kamielynn: I know this may not be something that would be an option for you, but have you heard of the herb Dong Quai? It’s often used to induce a miscarriage. I have taken it before to cause my period due to missing a period for 4 months…I wasn’t pregnant though but I thought maybe if I took this pill, it would kickstart my body into a regular cycle. I took ONE pill at night, the next morning I was full on on my period. I know you want natural and it IS kind of natural but not as natural as your body realizing it. I just thought if it could help you from having to go through even more, I would suggest it. I’m SO sorry you’re going through this =(
Post # 102
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194 posts
Blushing bee
@kamielynn: I’m so sorry that you’re going through this! Fiance and I are not anywhere close to the TTC stage, so I can’t exactly say that I know what you’re going through…but sending tons and tons of positive thoughts, well wishes and prayers your way. Stay strong…we’re all here for you!!
Post # 103
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220 posts
Helper bee
@Mrs. Kiwi: I called and asked if my Dr. would prescribe
misoprostol, and they called me back this morning and requested that I come in today and have some bloodwork done to see if my HCG levels have dropped, and then she said we would reasses.
@soontobemrsm11: thank you for your suggestion, I am going to look it up and read about it!
@tropicalfish914: being a part of an online community you can be so surprised at how much care and concern you have for a stranger. I feel that from all of you, and it has helped me through this process.
Thank you ladies, they say it takes a village to raise a child, I believe the same is true when you are ttc.
Post # 104
Bee
588 posts
Busy bee
- Wedding: November 2007 - Radisson Hotel
@kamielynn: I really hope this all comes to an end for you. The waiting is the hardest part. I did everything horrible during the two weeks to miscarry naturally, I drank, went on rollercoasters, ate loads and loads of cookie dough- all the things that you’re not supposed to do when pregnant, and my body still didn’t get the message. This part is a living nightmare. I am so sad it is still going on for you.
Post # 105
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1311 posts
Bumble bee
I’m so sorry that this is happening to you 🙁
Post # 106
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190 posts
Blushing bee
@kamielynn: I can’t imagine the hell you are going through… Prayers and positive energy to you…