(Closed) Waiting to start a family until you have your “family” home?

posted 7 years ago in Home
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper

There is nothing wrong with starting your family in a “starter” home. That’s what most people do anyway. We brought our daughter home to a tiny one bedroom apartment and it was fine. We moved when it became financially realistic.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Well, there are any number of reasons why a couple would want to wait to have kids, and living situation is certainly one of them.  Granted, a newborn doesn’t take up a lot of space, and I’m sure you would adjust/make due.  IMO, where you live becomes important when it comes time to send them to school (since we are public school people).

Post # 5
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Honey bee

We plan to start our family in our starter home. Depending on the market and all that, we plan to sell in 7-10 years but we will hopefully start our family in 3-4 years from now.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I am in the same situation as you.  I work from home and I own my 2 bedroom starter home.  I am going to stay here for 5 years and hopefully have two babies in those 5 years.  In those 5 years, the house will be paid off. 

I believe in the long run it’s best for the children to have a significant financial cushion instead of stretching myself to thin too early.

I’d rather live cozily than house poor.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

We also live in a 2 bedroom townhome. We don’t use the extra room for anything (storage and guestroom), so it could easily be a nursery. But I understand where you’re coming from, we also wanted our “family home” before the baby came. Sadly, it took us me actually getting pregnant to get motivated to move, I don’t suggest that! I’m 7 months preggo and moving. We’re hoping to rent our town house b/c we can’t sell it now, we’d lose too much money. Would you be able to do that?

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

We are renting a condo and although we prob could financially afford to buy when our lease ends, we have decided to wait until after we have a baby. (Still TTC) I would like to continue to work after having the baby, but I’m not sure if I’m going to be up to the task of juggling home and work (I’ve had some health issues that might make it difficult). We won’t be able to afford a house in an area that we want, close to the city on one income. So we’ve decided that we are going to wait until after we have the baby and I try to work for 6 mos. At that point, we can make the decision of where to buy a house.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I agree w/pp – there is nothing wrong with making it work to start a family in a small home.  People all over the world do it in less space than you have in your townhouse!  All a baby really needs for the 1st few years is a crib and space to eat & poop.  Set up a crib in your bedroom – or hallway.  Just make do – I’m sure it’ll save you $$ on decorating a whole room for a 10lb human.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I’d also stay where you are, forgo the nursery and put the babe’s crib in your bedroom. While its fun to decorate a nursery it isn’t really necessary and having baby in your bedroom means a shorter distance to travel in the middle of the night for late night changing and feeding. Leave your office as your work space since it sounds like you really need that space to be separate to work effectively. Then you can wait at least another 2-4 years before the baby is out of a crib and will probably need more space by which time the market should hopefully be better.

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