(Closed) Waiting to TTC – Part 10

posted 7 years ago in TTC
Post # 482
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

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bouncybee:  nonsense! Waiting is waiting, we all have our reasons 🙂

Post # 483
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

It gets harder when you’re at that stage of life when over 50% of the people you know are pregnant or have babies. And you hardly ever hear from them anymore, yet they still find copious amounts of time to post sickeningly cute baby photos all over facebook!!

This girl who I used to consider my best friend, I haven’t heard from her for over 3 weeks (not a single text) and it hurts! I can and do text her but it would be nice if she just initiated ONCE, you know? It just seems like all these ladies with babies shove their childless friends to the curb once their life has changed. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I told her I’m a bit over having to drive to all my friend’s houses and no-one ever comes out to see me when I know perfectly well they go out to the shops or to their other friends-who-have-babies-houses. 

And you hear when they say “my priorities have shifted now that I’m a mum, I now have a better idea of what’s actually important in life!” *retches*

 

I think this is ‘normal’ and inevitably it will happen to all of us but it really sucks when you’re on the other side of the fence looking in and feeling rejected, lol. 

Post # 484
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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bouncybee:  Anyone is welcome!!!! We all want children 🙂

 

AFM: I had all my blood work done yesterday and everything came back normal and I was told that we are good to start TTC when we want 🙂  Almost got out of my pap that other day but since we want to try in 3 months :O  My doctor recommended one

Post # 485
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

bouncybee:  Of course you can join this thread, we are a very welcoming group! I am very sorry to hear about your late miscarriage, I do hope you can some answers as to why it happened. Should I add you on the list for June 2014 maybe?

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amyinbrisbane:  I definitely understand what you mean about friends going MIA after having kids. I think to a certain degree it’s normal that they do not have as much free time as they used to, but also they shouldn’t completely shut their friends out because they had a baby. 

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livelaughlove628:  Good to see everything went well at your appointment!

Post # 486
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Hi ladies! We are getting really close to 500 posts so I will start a new thread. I will post the link below as soon as I have it going in a few minute.

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FreckledFox:  Since you started this current thread, could you please close it? Many thanks!

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