(Closed) Waiting to TTC – Part VIII

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 482
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316 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Coral99:  Welcome!! ๐Ÿ™‚ My dad always said “if you wait for everything to be perfect before you have kids, you’ll never have kids!” ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 483
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1920 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

So….I THINK I may have good news. We may be TTC next month! Darling Husband asked me the other night when is the latest I would want to TTC. And I said next month ๐Ÿ™‚  He said ok, let’s see what happens next month. So I started to say ok, we can have sex this day, that day and the next… and he’s like no, just once! I’m like WTF! I know all it takes is once but come on, let’s REALLY try here! Lol …so I guess we will see what happens next month. I know he likes to make me squirm.  Last week I got,” if it snows more than 18 inches, then it’s baby making weather.” Of course we got 2 inches yesterday.  Womp Womp…

Post # 484
Hostess
8146 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MiJeS1104:  Oh man! I’d slap my Darling Husband if he teased me like that!!  I guess he wants to just take it easy next month??? That’s so exciting!!!  My Darling Husband said August, but he’s more like the type who’d say we’d start August 31st!

Post # 485
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@FreckledFox:  LOL. ..yea from what it seems, we will start next month. Yay! 

Post # 486
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592 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@MiJeS1104:  I would die if Darling Husband said that about the snow! At least he’s being open and playful about it? sounds like next month may be a nail biter! So happy for you, I got some good news too! 

 After yet another talk about TTC last night, Darling Husband was much more open to talking and throwing around ideas. Thanks to some bee-inspired ideas that I brought up we both have agreed that january/february may be a good time to TTC. We also talked about the things that were “holding us back” from TTC, and we’re both just waiting on home ownership more than needing to have x-amt saved before children! I’m excited that it could be as soon as this time next year, at the same time sad that I have to wait a whole year while suffering baby-rabies alone! lol 

Post # 487
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@mrscorgi:  How exciting! Hopefully the year will fly by! Yea, my Darling Husband is a teaser. He’s just so nervous about habing a baby, but who isn’t! ?

Post # 488
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1834 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Imabigkidnow:  @Emma20130601:  I know I’m really excited!! It’s crazy to think that if we conceive right away I could be an almost mommy 1 year from now!!

Post # 489
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1105 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Emma20130601:  I think at some point, once you’ve travelled a bit and the ‘going out every weekend’ scene no longer holds as much appeal, people do come around to the ‘settling down, hanging out in the house on the weekend, maybe even having a kid’ idea ๐Ÿ™‚ Good luck with TTC in the future!

 

I’ve gotta say, having a new job totally takes your mind away from obsessing about a TTC timeline hahaha, I’m so preoccuped for most of the day and time goes by pretty fast!

Post # 490
Bee
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

@MiJeS1104:  Oh congrats on the great talk with DH! I hope everything works out for you guys. How exciting!!! My Darling Husband teases the same way so I totally understand!

@FreckledFox:  LOL my Darling Husband is like that too. He will say he is going to do something “this month” but then waits until the very last day of the month to do whatever it is. It drives me craaaaaazy. When we were talking about getting engaged and he already had the ring (yea I was super involved in that process lol) he told me he was going to propose sometime before Sept. He waited until August 28th to do it! I had totally given up hope and assumed it wasn’t happening (which is what he wanted me to think….). LOL he is an ass like that sometimes. ๐Ÿ˜€

@mrscorgi:  That is so exciting!! It’s so surreal to think you guys could be trying this time next year, right?! I am sure the time is going to fly by!

@amyinbrisbane:  Yea I am starting a new job tomorrow after 5 months of being unemployed. Being home all day, I am definitely left with too much free time to sit around and think about having little ones in the house. This job is going to be a nice distraction. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 491
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207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@emsy3110:  I always think the same things! LOL. I always think, if we get pregnant right away, I could be like nine months pregnant at Christmas time! It’s crazy! I’m sure the time will FLY by before we know it.

Post # 492
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MiJeS1104:  Great news about TTC next month! Kepp us posted!

@Imabigkidnow:  Haha I know, It’s really fun to think about it! I’m hoping to have a nice belly during Christmas time ๐Ÿ™‚

@Emma20130601:  Really cool that you make maple syrup! Do you sell it?

@mrscorgi:  I’m sure this next year will fly by. And in the mean time, you have the bees to help keep you sane!

Post # 493
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592 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@emsy3110:  Thanks! the bee really is the best place to hang your crazies at the door before you explode on DH;) haha I dont have any friends who are in the same situation so its wonderful to come here and read about others who understand! ( I have one friend with an adorable 9 mo. old boy, but shes a single mother and can’t relate to my relationship with Darling Husband, but thank god for the baby fix when i get to see that little man!) 

@Imabigkidnow:  @emsy3110:  I didnt think about being preggo at christmas! A belly during the holidays sounds wonderful!  

 

Post # 494
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592 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Mrs. Coyote:  I know all too well the ideas that come to play when home by yourself all day! i’m finishing university and have entirely too much time on my hands, my secret baby pintrest board is booming ๐Ÿ˜‰  I’m working on coming up with a list of ideas and things that Darling Husband and I can do together for our last year before TTC! so surreal! 

Post # 495
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207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@mrscorgi: It does! I would much prefer that over having a huge belly in the summer time!! Haha. That could be so uncomfortable.  

Post # 496
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702 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Imabigkidnow:  Right!? I would so rather be pregnant in the winter! My coworker gave birth last august and June and July were hell for her!  No thank you

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