(Closed) Waiting until I get married to move in together

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Nope. We aren’t living together. We live about 45 minutes apart and I won’t move to the house until we’re married. It’s not necessarily for reasons like cleanliness but for our own personal, religious reasons. To each their own.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Nope!! We are waiting too…I already bought a house and my parents are super conservative…although we stay together every night we are not living together until we are married…not really my choice but a respect the parents thing…but we are slowly putting our new house together for when we can live together!

Post # 5
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1074 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We don’t live together either.

Post # 6
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337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

We don’t live together and won’t until we are married.

Post # 7
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3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My Fiance and I won’t be living together until after marriage. It’s hard but it was the right decision for us.

Post # 8
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15 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I don’t live with my Finace. Even our Catholic priest was shocked when we said that (maybe because we’re in our 30s?).

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

We currently do not plan on living together but we may have an over 2 year engagement so idk…….

Post # 10
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790 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We don’t live together either. I think it adds way more excitement to the wedding and a true feeling of “being married”

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We also don’t live together, and don’t plan to until we are married. We both have personal and religious reasons for this, but I also think that it will make the transition more exciting for me!

Post # 12
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

We don’t live together, not religious, just personal reasons on both of our parts. He’s lived with someone and I prefer not to, at least until I am engaged. I can work with that. LOL

Some people say you don’t know a person until you live with them, but I don’t think there is anything SO alarming that living with them after marriage will make you leave…unless it’s something they will go to jail for, I would think.

But then, when my guy stays over, I want to kill him for putting wet towels in the hamper, so he’s lucky I still want to marry him.LOL

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We have never lived together either – and we are both in our 30’s.  We will be moving in together in about 2 weeks though, which is about 4 months before the wedding – but this is because I’m moving to California from Connecticut…

very excited for the long distance part of our relationship to be over.  We’ve been LD for about 4 months…

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

We are waiting.. I am living in the house be bought until the wedding and then he will move in. It is so lonely, but he is over a lot. Makes me get really excited for when he does get to move in 🙂

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I wouldn’t move in with Fiance until we were engaged. I think that living together just takes a lot of patience and compromise. We really have had a super easy time of it compared to a lot of stories I’ve heard… but that doesn’t mean we haven’t had to work at it a little. 🙂

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

We are waiting for marriage as well!

I can’t wait to live with him though! (even though, like you I know I will go crazy with his less than perfect cleaning habits!)

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