(Closed) waiting until wedding night

posted 9 years ago in Christian
Post # 3
1473 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Smurfylove82:  I don’t know your relationship of course, but I think that the best way for me to help someone find God is to love them and be tender with them, as of course you already are with your SO. I feel like I have an easier time drawing closer to God if when I know that the people I care about will love me regardless of my imperfections. When I don’t feel a need to defend myself it’s easier for me to improve. Congratulations on finding God and a wonderful person to share your life with!

Post # 4
64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would say pray pray pray! My fiance has always believed in God but he has only recently really begun to truly dedicate himself to Him. I believe along with praying for someone the best way to bring him closer to God would be for him just to see you living by example. Be patient and kind with him and above all else love. Because love never fails and God is love! Im sure in time your man will have a heart on fire for God!

Post # 5
1024 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Pushing your religion on somebody else is not okay. You cant just change a big thing about him to suit your own beliefs. What if he was Muslim and wanted you to become closer to his God... or if heprayed for you. That does not show respect for him as an autonomous human being. 

Post # 6
16 posts
  • Wedding: February 2012

Pray, pray, pray!  I encountered a similar situation with my husband now.  We recently got married and he did not understand the relationship I had with God and the love I feel for Him. I really want him to have that experience but he just doesn’t understand, so I started praying. Our church has prayer services at 7am so I started going and praying then suddenly last week my husband decided he wanted to join me without me trying to push him to join me! I was surprised and realized that I alone wasn’t able to persuade him to at least start establishing a relationship with God but that God was answering my prayers.

Once again, keep praying – “Never stop praying.” (1 Thessalonians 5:17)

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