(Closed) Waiting + Upcoming Birthday and no expectations :-/ (rant)

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think there are several different things going on here!

It seems like there are a few communication issues going on here, that aren’t going to be fixed by hoping ____ happens or dropping hints. 

Your SO could have something fabulous planned and you may not even know it! If something is really important to you, make it known- even if he works 100 hours a week. Just so there are no secrets.

Try and stay postive and keep communicaiton lines open!

Happy birthday too 😉

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Oooooh, your bday is VERY close to mine!!! Happy birthday!

I too am not expecting a proposal at all and I just want to spend the day with him in some sort of romantic situation that’s all.  But I agree for my milestone birthday my expections would be soooo much higher. I know how sensitive you are feeling about all this.

But right now, just 2 weeks to go until your birthday, you should try to be positive and excited about your big day and enjoy it…

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

Much of what you said rings so true to me.  My SO talks about our wedding and what we’d like to have and again talks about proposal being soon, but no ring yet.  I don’t have any advice for you except I know how you feel, it completely stinks!

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