(Closed) Waiting, waiting, waiting…

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
613 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@LuckyInLoveInPA:  OMG, you sound like me and your SO sounds like mine! It’s soooo frustrating! He won’t stop telling me “Oh it’s not the right time, I need to do this right, we don’t have enough money” etc. Being patient for so long is starting to make me get upset every so often, and I’m waiting for a few other big things too. Waiting sucks!

Post # 4
Member
715 posts
Busy bee

@LuckyInLoveInPA:  that’s me 2 I’m 30 he’s just 33. Together 2.5 years. I just want to get on with it! We both know this is out we both know we want kids and sooner rather than later! Just last night he said to me when can we have kids? I was like when we are married. It’s like come on already. I’m really conscious of time, and it gets me down too when other ppl get engaged or another special event or surprise treat ends in no proposal πŸ™  don’t worry there’s plenty of us out there! We will get our happy ending! 

Post # 5
Member
366 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m exactly there too, mid thirties, 2 and half years, financially, profesionaly, emotinally stable, but he wants to wait to get married. He wants to get married! He just doesn’t want to get engaged yet. I don’t get it at all, and we have many fights about it! πŸ™ It always start calm, and ends very badly, like just a few minutes ago. I’m at my wits ends, don’t know what to do! We live together in his place, and I want to move out until I am legit there (for now, we are nothing, so for anything important related to the place, I just don’t exist) anyway, I want to move out and he’s so mad, he thinks I’m unfair and all. I AM unfair???? What about him, making me live like that and he could make everything right in a minute, but he wants to WAIT?? What for? Doesn’t have a ring yet, he is not trying for a surprise. He is really just making me wait. I could scream!

Post # 7
Member
556 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@LuckyInLoveInPA:  As a waiting bee too, I can say that having other people in the same position than I am, makes me feel better, especially when someone goes out of the waiting zone… 

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