(Closed) Waiting without knowing…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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52 posts
Worker bee

@EmilyJoy:  

You know I am with you since you commented on my post about asking if he even has a plan. I think we try hard to not be pushy but at the end of the day I just feel better knowing at the very least that he has it under control.

Post # 6
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481 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@EmilyJoy:  I’m sorry, Em! Do you guys have a “timeline?” Probably not if he wants to really surprise you! But maybe if he could just tell you “by the end of the summer” or something then maybe you could relax a little bit and enjoy! Do you think it’s better than knowing he doesn’t have the ring?

Post # 8
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481 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@EmilyJoy:  Ok well he’s aware of your timeline so that should help! maybe? haha

 

Post # 9
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1131 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I went through that stage too! It did suck! I hated getting my hopes up for the chance he might propose when I knew nothing (if he had a din or anything). I’m through that stage now (he does have a ring) but in my case, during the whole phase where I was wondering, he had thought about it, but hasn’t done anything

Post # 12
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481 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@EmilyJoy:  Oh my goodness, his mom sounds sooo sweet! Ok maybe a little pushy, but with good intentions. Very cute!

Post # 14
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1131 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@EmilyJoy:  for me, it was harder before we had the talk because I more just wanted to know we were heading down the path to marriage (after 5 years at that point) but I wasn’t in a rush to actually get married/engaged right then. But we did have the talk, and pretty much the following weekend he was dragging me through jewelry stores and we bought the ring about a month later 🙂

Post # 16
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2167 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@EmilyJoy:  I’m with you…sorta. I found out in January that SO has started looking for a ring because he told my Mom. He also let it slip to me that the ring he gets me “one day” will be a princess cut. Not knowing is tough but also kinda fun for me. I’m going to try to enjoy this waiting time because I know its coming soon. 

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