(Closed) Waiting…

posted 10 years ago in Christian
Post # 3
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Newbee

I am too!  It always seems like I’m the only one!

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2007

I waited! (And felt like the only one, too).  I’m married now (yay!), but both my husband and I were virgins when we got married. So… I have a whopping 8 1/2 months of "experience" now, and 28 years of waiting before that, so if you have any questions at all, ask away!  And hang in there — it’s so, so worth it.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

We’re waiting, so you’re not quite the only one 🙂

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2008

Nope – we’ve both been waiting too.  Looking forward to the wedding night and honeymoon….

side note – I went to the gyn for a checkup and to talk about birth control stuff recently and she was literally shocked that I was 28 and still a virgin in this day and age.  She was nice about it – but I could really tell she was shocked that I had chosen to wait. 

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

my FH and i are waiting…he’s a virgin but I’m not (we like to say i’m born again since i haven’t had sex in 4 years)…we’re both extremely excited for the wedding day…we’re getting married in the morning, the reception will be over at 4pm…we thought about planning something for everyone that night but figured we had lots of practicing to do 🙂 so we decided against it…the funny thing is that i think i’m more nervous about it then he is….

i think it’s extremely admirable that people can wait until their married, its a hard thing to do…don’t worry, you’re not the only one!  

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2009

My FH and I are not virgins but we have decided to abstain from sex until our wedding in June 2009. It has been difficult but it the end it will be way worth it.

I admire people who have waited until marriage to have sex. I think it makes everything that much more exciting and special. Good for you!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I hope this isn’t too TMI to post but just FYI, having sex when you’re not used to it can cause you to start your "time of the month" almost immediately. So just be prepared and pack some extra feminine products even if you don’t think you’ll need them.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2008

We’re waiting too, and we’re actually waiting for our first kiss as well. That one has been really hard, especially because there are even fewer people like that out there to support you.

Post # 12
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: July 2007

I’m married now, but we waited too. And we did what meelahj described for our wedding day. The reception was over by 4pm and we were in our hotel room by 5. It was great. So glad we did it that way, because we were sooo tired and passed out by 8!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee

We are waiting, too!  One of us has (a long time ago), and the other hasn’t, but I really don’t think it is an issue.

 I am super excited, but one of my friends waited and said it took her a LONG time to enjoy.  I hope that isn’t true for me, bc I can’t wait for my honeymoon!  I also had a Dr freak me out a bit about it.  (I no longer see her due to other issues such as repeatedly testing the V* for Save-The-Date Cards and never spending time to address my issues, ended up being allergy related, but she told me I should never use c******s when I start…Isn’t that scary advice?  Maybe I don’t know enough, but that would be dangerous advice in a more promiscuous person’s hands…)  So, I probably just need to talk to my new Dr about any "embarassing" honeymoon questions.  (bc there is NO way I’m talking to my mom!!!)

 

Congrats to all you ladies! 

Post # 14
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Newbee

We’re waiting.

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

Neither of us were virgins, but we abstained until we were married. It was definitely worth it.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

december: i went to a wedding where it was the couple’s first kiss ever for both of them. the bride gave a really cute squeal after the kiss. that wedding was the most beautiful moment of my life so far, i think. good luck! 🙂

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