- 4 years ago
Just an update for you all. A few of you may know me.
Last Sunday I asked my SO to stay at his Mums for a few days so we could have some time to think about what we want from life
After over 5 years of friendship, 4.5 years together and 16 months of living with each other I realised that thepromised he made me were indeed lies and it became obvious that we wanted different things.
After a discussion on Wednesday night where he said he basically just wants to play playstaion all day long as opposed to me wanting to get married, buy a house and have a family, I told him it was over.
I’m gutted, it was hard. There were tears all round but it needed to be done.I am never going to find my prince charming if i am stuck in a relationship with someone who ddoesn’t even act like a man.
Yesterday he moved his things out. Watching him say goodbye to the cats and me saying goodbye to his parents really hurt but I have to keep telling myself it is for the best.
So any kind words or wisdom from you bees would be muchly appreciated at this time.