- 8 years ago
I’ve said before, I’m not waiting, not really. He’s got his things to do, and I’m working to be able to move out on my own, if he decides he wants to join me, that’s fine. If he doesn’t, that’s fine too. Eventually, I’ll be fine either way.
But at the moment, I feel like the slightest mention of the W word puts my fells into a really rotten mood. Even when it’s not my W I’m mentioning!! He goes quiet, or puts it all back onto me.
We’ve talked about it. He SAYS we’re on the same page – that he WANTS to build a life and a family with me, but his actions are telling me otherwise. Despite my attitude towards the future, I love him and I’d really rather he was telling the truth.
Does anyone else feel you can’t mention certain things (beginning with W, E, M and possibly K) in front of your SO for fear of upsetting him?