- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
So I have a friend, actually she is one of my best friends wife, and I am the godmother of their 2 boys. Apparently she assumed that she was going to be my Matron of Honor, I’m not really sure why, but she did. And when I ended up not asking her to be in the wedding, she freaked out, and got really upset. She then decided that I had a choice, I could either, put her in the wedding as my Maid/Matron of Honor or she, my best friend, and their boys would not be attending my wedding. I felt as though that was quite extreme and I called her out on it, her husband agrees. And we both made that very clear to me. But she now refuses to want ANYTHING to do with my wedding, and says that she can’t handle hearing about it anymore if she’s not a part of it. I wanted her to be involved, like invited to the shower and whatnot. But after her freak out, I’m not so sure now. She continues to tell me that “the balls in my court” and is waiting for me to ask her, but I wont be. What do I do when it comes inviting her to things? I’m afriad I’m going to regret it, but also don’t really want her to miss out on it, and at times I feel like that can be my way of involving her. Ya know?
Any advise and thoughts are greatly welcome! Thanks!