(Closed) Want a super casual wedding the second time around

posted 5 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 2
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: The Hayloft

I’m not sure I’ll be much help with most of these questions but I have been to a short, very tiny intimate wedding and it was lovely. There was about 30 or so of us and it was in a restaurant in an old building. The ceremony was upstairs in this loft area and then we all had dinner in the main dining area. 

As far as Sunday no that’s not weird at all! There are no rules to when a wedding has to be, for example we’re doing a Friday. As long as it ends early enough that people won’t be out late for school and work Monday morning (which it sounds like you’re doing) it will be fine!

As far as your children you could include them in the unity ceremony for example having their own color sand if you were to do that, or including them in your vows.

I can’t think of any pitfalls at the moment as long as it ends early enough for everyone to go home and rest for a Monday morning. Some guests may be perturbed that they cannot drink if they have work in the am but that is a minor thing. 

Post # 3
2133 posts
Buzzing bee

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swordchick :  I’m doing something somewhat similiar, but much smaller (less than 30 guests total). One way to incorporate kids is to have some family pictures displayed at a sign in table or maybe around a cake table. Depending on if you wanted to have this as part of your ceremony, you could have the kids stand up with you and FH as you say your vows to each other. 

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