(Closed) Want our Bridesmaid and Groomsman to get together!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3520 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@afelk1112: Easy, give them a job!  Maybe ask the two of them, separately, to tastefully decorate your getaway car or hotel suite.  That will make them communicate on their own, and give them some alone time during the reception!

Post # 4
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Pair them up for the walk back up the aisle?

Seat them next to each other?

Have a “bridal party” dance at the wedding (or just have a song where you encourage the bridal party to dance with their partner)?

Not really sure what else you can do.

If you are having people help with favors maybe pair up by GM/BM pairing and have a competition to see who can finish the most the fastest (and do the best job)? I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man in a friends wedding who did this and it really opened up the communication between the Bridesmaid or Best Man and Groomsmen in question.

Post # 5
5273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yep, have them walk the aisle together. I put one of my Bridesmaid or Best Man with one of my Groomsmen that I thought would hit it off 🙂

Post # 6
326 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ha ha I am in a similar situation!

one of my best friends and my Fi’s room mate like each other, and I have wanted them to get together for a long time. the only hang up? she is like 3 linches taller than he is and doesn’t like it. She likes him just fine, just not his height. lol

I really hope to pump up the romance at our wedding and maybe inspire them to just be together.

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