(Closed) Want to ask all sibs and SOs to be in wedding party except one – how to handle?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Let her be a reader!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I would just ask her to do something else (not sure what)…or maybe invite her to get ready with you girls (if you can handle it).  I don’t think she would expect to be in the bridal party as his brother’s gf so I wouldn’t stress too much.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yes, a reader, handing out programs, or guest book attendant! 

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Yeah, just ask her to do something else that requires her to be somewhere else the whole time 🙂

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

You’re not required to have her in the wedding. Even if she was married to his brother, you wouldn’t need to ask her! If your fiance is close to his sister’s boyfriend, it makes sense to ask him, but if neither of you are close to his brother’s girlfriend, don’t feel guilty about it. If you do feel bad, like HisIrishPrincess said, let her do a reading. Even that’s not necessary though.

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