(Closed) Want to be surprised? Or want a timeline? (Kind of long)

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee

I personally like a combination of the two. I like having a vague timeline, so that I know that “one day” is attainable, and not just a distant fantasy, however I wouldn’t want a specific one, since I do like the idea of it being surprised. Right now, I’ve got a timeline of August 2nd to September 3rd (after I return from Israel, before Rosh Hashanah), and I don’t want it any more specific.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I don’t think it is wrong to want to be surprised, but my SO and I are both of the personality where we plan everything out way ahead of time, together. So that was never going to work. Also, we’re already planning the wedding so we really needed to be on the exact same page. We’re getting formally engaged November or December of this year. I feel like that’s enough wiggle room so I might be surprised. Maybe. I’m ok with that though.

Post # 6
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Busy bee

@LadyBlackheart:  Trust me, pretty much from the moment I step back on Canadian soil, I’m gonna be anxious about it.

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