- 1 week ago
- Wedding: February 2020
Major fence sitter here when it comes to having kids. I’m 26 and married. I envy women who always wanted kids and knew they always wanted to be moms and never questioned it. I also envy people who knew they never wanted kids and never did. I would love to be that sure.
I am torn and some days I think I want kids and sometimes I don’t. And I will not have a baby unless I am 100% sure that’s the path I’d like to take. I take the choice of parenthood extremely seriously. and I know I’m young enough to not have to make that decision now, but it is still something I think about.
I guess I just really want to hear stories of people who might have been fence sitters at one point and why you chose one way or the other. I’m sorry if this post is not in the right forum, this is only my second time posting on here and I’ll welcome any direction.
Thank you in advance for sharing!! I really appreciate being a part of this community. 🙂