(Closed) Want to surprise him, help a girl out?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Try striptease! You can buy the pussycat dolls workout tape they have a burlesque routine takes about 5 minutes to learn then once finish i promise he will wonder where you got it from. You will need like a sexy hat and some lingerie… As far as postions cowgirl is something you can try or just google positions for you two

Post # 4
8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@StevieJo:  Try girl on top.. reverse cowgirl.. etc. That should be good for height difference. Edit – oops I didn’t see that you don’t like these.

Try reading the Glamour.com love & sex blog.. they often have some good tips (go thru the archives). Also I haven’t read it for years, but Cosmopolitan has some tips as well.

As far as BJs go, as long as you a) seem enthusiastic b) don’t use teeth and c) use your hands as well as you mouth he’ll like it.

Post # 5
233 posts
Helper bee

My tips would be to try and not get hung up on there being a right or wrong way to do things. Just take your time,be gentle and take direction from his responses.Communicate,ask him what feels good.

As for positions girl on top is our favourite. You don’have to sit straight up if you’re shy. You can go on top and still be leaning over to kiss him and have your arms round his neck. This stops your legs from cramping as you are taking your weight on your torso. This works for us but then I’m 5ft 3,and he’s 6ft.

Most of all,have fun learning about each other and experimenting.

Post # 7
1722 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I’m just an inch taller then you and my fi is the same hight as yours ๐Ÿ™‚  my all time favorite position is doggy, if your comfortable with that.  missionary isn’t to bad if you don’t mind not seeing face.  We also do me on my back and him on his knees, which feels really good. If he is strong he can stand up and pick you.  My best advice is to get creative!!  Try everything that just pops into your head, we have found our best and funniest positions that way.  I think it really bonded us because even if something didn’t work out right we could laugh about it and just move on to the nexto idea that popped into our head.

As for giving BJs, your guy knows you’re new at this so ask him what he likes and then give it a try.  The more you do it the better you will become.  I think it all comes down to you feeling comfortable with yourself and with him.  Once you guys are completely comfortable you’ll be able to figure out what works for you guys and what doesn’t.  It’s all about process of elimnation ๐Ÿ™‚


Post # 9
1691 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’d have to agree with doggy style, seems like a great option.  If his legs are really long and you’re too short for it on the bed, he can bend you over on the bed while he’s off it standing – that could work!


As far as BJ’s go – he’ll be happy you even tried.  Don’t worry so much, just don’t tear him apart with your teeth and I’m sure he’ll love whatever you do with your mouth!

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