(Closed) Want to TTC – but need to be a bridesmaid!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

good luck and babydust to your ttcing. in regards to the dress, i would buy it, and if you do end up conceiving, sell it on a preowned dress site, you can probably sell it for half to 3 quarters of the money spent, and then buy yourself a more fitting smock? sorry if thats not much help

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Good luck TTC!  I just posted on another thread about this. My wedding is in March and my sister is going to start TTC soon (doesn’t want to be too pregnant for the wedding but also doesn’t want to be in 1st trimester either!)  She is holding off ordering her dress until the latest time possible (bridal salon says November is cut off – 4 months before wedding for ordering and alterations).  That way she will have a better idea of if she is or is not prego or just how prego she might be at the wedding!  Then, depending on that she will order the dress 1 or 2 sizes bigger.  All salons I have been to say that pretty much any dress will be fine to be altered to accommodate a belly (so don’t worry about having to stick with an empire waisted dress or anything).  Unless, you’re going to be on the verge of bursting.  

Try on dresses with the baby bump pillow salons have – you’ll get a better idea.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I was in a similar situation as you.  The bride knew from conversation prior to her engagement that I was going to TTC shortly after my wedding, but I’m not sure it was fresh in her mind when she asked me to be a bridesmaid.  In any case, I took into consideration that I could be 16 wks pregnant  for her wedding if I conceived right away and ordered my dress accordingly.  I would’ve had the dress altered to fit if I didn’t conceive.  She never asked why I ordered 4 sizes up, but I would’ve told her if she did.  She’s the type of friend that’d be supportive, so I didn’t make it a point to bring it up.

 

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

The dress probably doesn’t need to be ordered until January, maybe February, and if you find out you are pregnant before that, you will have to talk to the bride in confidence about you getting a different dress because you will be visibly pregnant by May. If you aren’t pregnant by then, you would be 4-5 months pregnant at the wedding if you immediately got pregnant. That’s where I am right now, and I can wear a lot of the same dresses as before still, so you could just order the dress a bit big and have it altered accordingly when it comes depending on whether you are or are not pregnant.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Find out from the bride when the absolute order deadline for the dress will be.  Once that gets close, you can re-evaluate your current and projected size, and take it from there.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

You could also talk to the store when the dresses are ordered, if you’re pregnant at that time, to see what sort of exchange policy they have.

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