(Closed) wanted a relaxed wedding..fiance is TOO relaxed! help!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

He’s a guy.  They don’t get it.  Honestly!!  Unless you can explain it using sports or video game terminology. . . it’s impossible.

Try not to stress about it!   

Post # 4
Member
3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Can you compare it to wedding that you have been to together? It’s likely yours won’t be similar to theirs in terms of style…but in terms of the weight and seriousness of the actual event (as in pledging your life to each other). Maybe if he starts to think of it from the perspective of other weddings he has seen you can sort of back out from the characteristics of those days for the vision you want – as opposed to building up the typical parties that you have thrown. Not sure that I clearly communicated that, but I know it’s worked for me. 

It’s tough, because you said you throw parties a lot and he’s clearly equating this to just another party…would pointing out the amount of money you are spending help him realize that this is a special day?

Sometimes guys can be so frustrating. 

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