(Closed) Wanting to ask a bridesmaid to step down

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
295 posts
Helper bee

I’d ask her to step down. It seems like she relinqued her desire to be in it when all the drama happened.


Send her a message.. “I’ve thought it over.. and”

Post # 4
1915 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

If you’re done being friends with her, then go ahead and ask her to step down.  Because to ask someone to step down as a bridesmaid and expect them to still show up at your wedding and be happy for you, I think that’s a lot to ask.  If you’d still like to salvage the relationship with her, you should be a friend and try to talk to her about the way she made you feel. 

If someone asked me to step down from their bridal party, I would wash my hands of that relationship.

Post # 5
141 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@yellowsunshine123:  I’m curious – what did the pianist say to her? Even if it was something bad, obviously she shouldn’t be nasty to you, but I could understand her being upset in the heat of the moment.

Post # 6
2521 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

If she truly doesn’t want to be a bridesmaid anymore, that’s on her. But make sure you talk to her again before you make the decision. Sometimes people say things they don’t really mean when they are really hurt and angry.

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