(Closed) Wanting to know more about the future?

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I don’t think 21 is too young to be engaged, but I hear what your SO is saying, he wants to be settled and graduate before even contemplating marriage. And most guys will not budge on those feelings until they feel they are ready, and if you try and rush the process he may back away even further.

Its hard to be patient for something you want so badly, but remember both of you need to want it, not just the one. Until he’s ready, enjoy your relationship, have fun, and make him realise exactly how good your relationship is and then he will see you in a wife kinda sense.

Good luck 🙂

Post # 4
818 posts
Busy bee

My boyfriend is 20 almost 21 and he’s said the same thing before. I think it’s a guy thing that they feel like they want to be able to support a future family before they’re ready for anything. Sadly there’s no advice for patience other than to take it one day at a time.

The topic ‘Wanting to know more about the future?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors