(Closed) WARNING: If she’s disinterested now, she’ll be disinterested then

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
1518 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That’s awful.. I have come to the conclusion that a lot of this behavior is one because of jealously and two because they have not been married. Sometimes people can’t grasp the importance of your big day if they haven’t been in the situation as a bride. They don’t realize the money and time and emotions invested in it.

I actually had some bridesmaids that I didn’t think would be that involved and blew me away with all there work and support. So sometimes it is hard to tell how certain friends will react to all the wedding stuff. 

Post # 4
Member
2641 posts
Sugar bee

Uggg.  You know how “traditionally” bridesmaids have been single?  I think brides ahve better luck if they’re married, already.  Less likely to have jealous ones. 

In fact I think sometimes brides would do better to rent BMs.  “Happily married, experienced, thoughtful, creative bridesmaid for rent.   Will travel.”  I bet a lot of bees on here would be happier.

Post # 6
Member
7450 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

wow. such a shame a beautiful day for one amps up someone elses insecuritiy.

Post # 7
Member
573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

haha, @Tanya123 I love that idea! A couple of professional, experienced BMs could replace a DOC.

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