(Closed) Warning…Rant

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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9631 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

aww *hugs* I would go out and by the TV anyway, hopefully when he wakes up he will cook you dinner 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@prettypincushion:  You shouldn’t wake up, because that def won’t make anything better… but I totally sympathize with you here! When we started dating, now-FI dropped the ball a few times when I made a huge effort for something, and I was really disappointed. Hopefully you’ve got it wrong and he’ll be doing something for you later. Otherwise, find a way to quietly, calmly voice your disappointment so that you don’t have to be miserable. *hugs*

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2012

That’s really annoying… I hope you’re not upset anymore by now, but I just have to share this with you. I’m not sure if you’ve heard about it before.

4 basic temperament http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_temperaments

5 love languages http://www.5lovelanguages.com/learn-the-languages/the-five-love-languages/

I don’t think he meant it to fall asleep, he’s probably a bit of phlegmatic temperament (like my Fiance – he sleeps all the time, often when I clean around the house. convenient!)

I found learning about the love languages is helpful, certain people appreciate certain things more, you just have to find out what they like most. 🙂

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Shift work sucks. If he’s tired, let him sleep. Or he could be coming down with something. Buy a TV tomorrow. Or put on your big girl pants and go get it yourself and surprise him when he wakes up. 😉

 

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