(Closed) Was anyone else excited or annoyed to change their last name?

posted 4 years ago in Names
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I was happy to change my name to my husband’s.  I don’t understand the poll, though, lol.

Post # 4
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Busy bee

Excited to in 8 months! And very proud to be his wife.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I am sort of both.

The idea of the red-tape and paperwork I’ll have to go through (I have dual citizenship, so it’s TWICE the drama) makes me have a stomach ache.

But I will sound like a Soap Opera character with my new name, so that makes me laugh. And I’ve been an independent person all my life. I think changing my name will be more meaningful than I ever expected.

(for the record, I’m mainly doing it to please my FI. He deserves it. :))

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Both! I was really excited to be Mrs. P too 🙂 But I was married years ago, and changed my name then…and then changed it back again after divorce. The whole process is an annoyance, but now that it is done I am happy. If anything were to ever happen that resulted in Mr. P and I breaking up I wouldn’t go through the struggle of changing back to my maiden again. But that isn’t going to happen anyway!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I am excited too! I get to change mine in 3ish months 🙂

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Sunfire:  +1, to all of this

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I’m happy to change my name, but changing every piece of identification is going to be a pain in the ass, I won’t lie.

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

I’ve been married before so I know what a pain it is to change my name and I am not looking forward to it.  If it wasn’t so important to my husband I would keep my maiden name just to avoid the crap that goes with changing my name to his.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@Daizy914:  I’m excited, a bit apprehensive, and a little sad. Let me explain:

Happy- We’re going to be married! A family unit! With our last name on the mailbox! Yay!

Apprehensive – What do you mean I have to fill out all these forms?!

Sad – My last name is going to die out of my family because the only people in my generation with our name are all girls. I love my last name, so this is sad for me. 🙁

FI did say we could consider using my last name as a middle name for one of our kids. We both agreed to use it if we have a boy because it sounds very masculine.

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

You poll answers don’t really work with your question, but I was very happy. It was quite a process, and I still find my maiden name on a lot of items, but it was great, and I love it.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@canarydiamond:  +1… Looking forward to it, but not looking forward to the process!

Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

@Daizy914:  I’m excited to change my last name! But it will be a bit of an annoyance bc I will have to change 2 car titles, the deed to my house, get a new passport and driver’s license, and change all my business cards. Probably get a new e-mail address.. and also change my name on all my credit cards and accounts for bills. Man… typing that out for the first time is a bit scary w/ the amount I have to do!

ETA: Just saw this website and now I’m having a mild panic attack.

 

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I was initially very excited… But by the time everything was said and done amost three months later, I was just irritated and frustrated by all of the paperwork!

At one point I went to the RMV (The DMV if you don’t live in a hipster state) with my pre-filled out paperwork… And waited in line for 3.5 hours! Sitting on the floor! Pregnant with morning sickness!

It was pretty awful.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Daizy914:  I am incredibly excited about it!! It’s the first thing I plan on doing after the wedding. I like the name I have now but I am certainly looking forward to making the change and moving forward in life with my new husband. I am excited to share his name! He is very excited about it too.

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