(Closed) Was anyone else nervous before the proposal?

posted 5 years ago in Proposals
Post # 2
1392 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Not really — was too excited!


Also…. am I the only one who keeps thinking this is TheGridMonster? Two bees with the same avatar is trippy.

Post # 3
45 posts

Nope. Mine is happening this weekend as well and I’m not nervous at all. Maybe anxious/curious as to how it’ll happen but that’s it. 

Post # 4
5641 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

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wonderlily :  I saw the avatar and wondered why is Grid posting about pre-proposal stuff?

Post # 5
4 posts

Hahaha! Don’t worry you’re perfectly normal and just nervous because of the excitement. Me and my fiance almost have the same story the difference is we already have a cute little boy named Hugo. 🙂 And after all the preparation my fiance did we come up of taking Coral Gables museum wedding as our venue. Stop thinking of how or where is the place he do propose to you just remember that no matter how simple the place/food, etc is the important thing is you are the girl he wants to marry and spend his whole life with. 🙂 

Post # 8
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

I was a little nervous… Not about getting engaged itself, but just about that one moment where all the attention/pressure is on me. I have some social anxiety sometimes, though, so the idea of people staring at me and expecting me to act a certain way was the main catalyst for my nerves.

Post # 9
834 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2017 - historical mansion

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chlomo1992 :  Yes, I was nervous, and I couldn’t really pinpoint why. We talked about it, and I think my issue was that I knew it was happening, but I didn’t know exactly when, so it was causing me anxiety to not know the details. Are you a plannner and like to know what to expect? I was like that. But in the end, I was surprised, and it was simple and perfect. I had said that I didn’t mind if we happened to be in public (out for a walk or something), but I didn’t want anything big and flashy. He ended up proposing at my parents’ house at dinner with some family friends, and it was lovely that those few people I’m very close with were there. Good luck! Tell us how it goes! 

Post # 12
52 posts
Worker bee

Just to chime in that I’m expecting a proposal some time around end of November and I am super happy/nervous/excited. A myriad of emotions basically!

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