(Closed) Was hoping to add myself to the pregnancy updates thread…

posted 9 years ago in Babies
Post # 18
466 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I just wanted to add my sympathy – I’m so sorry.

Post # 19
5151 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m so sorry for your loss 🙁 I wish your husband could be with you right now but hope you get to spend some much needed time with him soon. HUGS & support!

Post # 20
467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I am so sorry *hugs*

Post # 21
152 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Oh, I’m so sorry for your loss 🙁  How absolutely heartbreaking.  

Take all the time you need to mend and heal.  Don’t worry about what others say with regards to how you should feel, or what you should be doing/saying/feeling. Just do what feels right. 

I’m sorry your husband is away right now….do you have family or friends close by?  Even if they didn’t know about the pregnancy, perhaps they can lend a sympathetic ear, or even just a shoulder to cry on if you let them know what’s going on?

*big hugs*

Post # 22
1221 posts
Bumble bee

So sorry you are going thru this… i hope you are doing okay!

Post # 23
2191 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am so sorry for your loss ((hugs)) !!!!

Post # 24
3586 posts
Sugar bee

I’m so sorry. I hope you can find someone in person to talk to until he gets back.

Post # 25
747 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

i’m soooo sorry for your loss! 

Post # 26
2561 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am so sorry for your loss.

Post # 27
1119 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I’m sending prayers your way. Sorry for your loss.

Post # 28
105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2007 - Bride's family summer home in the Adirondacks

I am so so so sorry. I went through a very similar experience nearly 2 years ago and still think of my first baby nearly every day, even after my perfect little boy was born the following year. My only advice is to truly allow yourself to mourn. I cried for days and days, but after weeks & months started passing, & I became pregnant again, I felt like I “shouldn’t” still be so upset. Of course, in retrospect, there is no time limit to such pain. Allow yourself to cry & savor your love for your little one as much/often/long as you need to.

Post # 29
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

@forforever: Sure, I’m so sorry you had such a rough day yesterday. Hearing you talk about it takes me right back to last July in those first few days when I got the bad news. It’s just horrible. I remember all those crying spells and it just plain sucks. There is no other way to describe it. It just sucks!!! But don’t you try to pretend to be strong or anything else, as you mentioned. You cry as much as you need to! You grieve however and whenever you want. Everybody is different. Geez, I bawled every night after I came home from work for the next few weeks. But gradually, it became lesser and I was able to finally come to terms with what had happened. I really hope you can find a friend or family member to lean on for support while he is gone during the week! Again, please PM me if you need support/advice/just want to chat. Your body will go thru changes in the upcoming days/weeks. If you have questions, let me know. ((Hugs))  Just know you WILL get through this. It will just take some time.

Post # 30
323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I know how hard it is having had a loss myself.  Hang in there and take good care of yourself.

Post # 31
332 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I’m so sorry for your loss. I also went through a missed miscarraige last year. I went in for my 12 week apt. after having no bleeding, spotting, or cramping expecting to hear a heart beat and there was none. It was aweful, I was devistated. Even though I had convinced myself that I was never going to be able to have a baby after that, I’m currently 26 weeks pregnant. I’m still not over the pain of losing a baby and I’m pretty sure I never will be. Everybody would always tell me how common miscarriages are, but that didn’t make me feel any better that I had one. Take your time to grieve, it’s a tough thing to happen to you!

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk or have questions.

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