(Closed) Was I just splitting hairs?

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I can’t tell you whether or not you were right to say anything to him, because I know nothing about him or your relationship.

But I would say something in that situation. My Darling Husband can be a bit thick headed at times and doesn’t always realize how sensitive I am. So if he said something that I found upsetting or just kinda “off,” I would let him know.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

I wouldn’t have said anything, I pick my battles and debating word choice when his intentions were clear isn’t worth it to me. 

In the end, it doesn’t really matter as there is basically a 0% chance he is still thinking about this conversation.

Post # 6
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I wouldn’t of been offended at the wording, sounds like they were just joking around to me, no big deal.

Post # 7
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955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I really wouldn’t worry about it. But for future reference, pick your battles a little more wisely 😉

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