You weren’t stupid… you aren’t stupid.
I have but one Question for you tho…
WHY do you figure that this is all you are worth in what should be the MOST LOVING relationship in your life ?
In truth a man is at his BEST when he is pursuing a woman, or head over heels in LOVE…
Clearly that time has past in this relationship, as he now is paying you little to no attention, and doing things that upset you
You obviously are not happy… and if you marry him, it will be years & decades of more of this.
The time has come to move on… he is taking you & Your Love for granted. You DESERVE MORE… You can do much much BETTER than this guy.
I suggest that you pick up the following books and read them so you can gain more self confidence in love, and understand more fully how men think about women & relationships:
Greg Behrendt of Sex In The City fame has 2 excellent books:
It’s Called a Break Up Because It’s Broken, and
He’s Just Not That Into You
Dr Phil’s – Love Smart ~ Find The One You Want – Fix the one you got
And 2 Books by Steve Harvey:
Act Like a Lady – Think Like a Man, and
Straight Talk, No Chaser
These books all written by men because they got tired of watching women they liked fall for Losers… and get trapped in a vicious circle, giving up their power and happiness to men who didn’t deserve them.
You are an AMAZING WOMAN… time to realize that… and take back your power.
YOU CAN DO IT… start today.