(Closed) Was my decision wrong? Help please. (Kind of long)

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I don’t entirely understand – if he had two hours to sacrifice, why didn’t he just drive to you if it was that important?

Post # 6
1048 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

uhm, how old is he?  she wouldn’t let him?

Post # 7
5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I understand him wanting to see you but he should be respectful of your schedule. I think you made the right decision. Tell him to stop guilt tripping you. Go to bed and get some rest lady 😀 Your health is most important and he should be concerned about your health

Post # 8
367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@bestbuddies:  Agree with this.

In college I had a job that made me get up crazy earlier, and friends were guilting me all the time into staying out late. It would only make me cranky and unrealiable at work the next day. Not to mention I got sick a lot!

Don’t let him make you feel bad about wanting sleep – HIS job/family/responsibilities took him to that part of town. You shouldn’t have to sacrifice YOUR well-being/responsibilities for the sake of two hours together. 

Post # 9
232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012


You are not wrong at all for not going to see him. He should understand your situation and that you have to go to work in the morning at 4 am. Yes its 2 hours but those 2 hours could have been spent talking on the phone, skyping or him getting his butt up and coming to see you for the 2 hours because you have to get up. I think its just about understanding schedules and he will get over it soon enough.

Post # 10
3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

he could just as easily visit you– if he was more mature and acted like an adult.  who’s mom won’t “let” them see their fiancé? that’s ridiculous.  

when my Fiance and I can’t see one another (because he works early in the morning and needs his sleep) I encourage him to get more sleep and NOT come see me because I know how tired he is at work! 

Post # 11
7560 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

It seems like he’s being pretty immature. Is this just a problem tonight or in general? If someone values a relationship, they will talk to you even when their angry. 

Post # 13
4654 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

im just curious – how old is he?

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