Post # 1
It is no secret that my Fiance and I are foodies and love to have a good meal but we have decided for the wedding that we would try and eat healthier and get back on the road of good eating habits and working out.
Well last week I ordered a Detox kit (which I have used before) for my Fiance and I to use for 10 days as a jump start to getting healthy and when we were sitting there going over it with his Mom last night and he mentioned to her that he was going to start working out as well, she laughed…..WTH? He at that point was pissed and instead of her dropping it and seeing that he was upset she kept at it, asking what he was going to do and what his goals were in this process because he does not usually stil to stuff like this…REALLY? He plays softball 2-3 times a week year round and in no way shape or form is he in any health danger as far as his weight but it pissed me off that she said it and kept going with it…. Am I overreacting or being too sensitive?
Post # 3
People are rude, When I put out my hand to some family of my Fiance his two sisters started laughing!!!! What was so funny? I asked a couple times why they laughed but they never answered. And the oldest said sorry. Im still confused. Maybe the way I held out my hand or that I was marrying their brother?? I have no clue. Everytime they act like an ass to me, I check off a point. I mean can u really trust anybody?? Maybe Im paranoid, but I will show u respect IF u show me respect.Thats all I ask.
Anybody let things go when people have did something to u? But then it pops up in your head agin and u get pissed all over again??Thats how it is with my FI’s family and all. They are decent but sometimes……
Post # 4
was showing them my Ering.
Post # 5
I don’t know. I’m kinda in the middle in this. I think that his Mom clearly has a lifetime of experience with her son, so she has probably witnessed him not following thru with goals before. Now was she right to laugh, no, but it happens. All you can do is this point is prove her wrong. If I”m honest, I’ve told people a million times before, oh yeah I’m gonna lose X amount of weight and stick to workout plan. But 8 times outta 10 I don’t. So if someone called me out on it yeah it would bother me on one level, but only following thru is the only way shut them up.
Just blow it off.