(Closed) Was your fiance your “first?”

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Was your fiance your "first?"
    Yes, he/she was my first : (129 votes)
    31 %
    Not yet, but he/she WILL be my first when we get married : (37 votes)
    9 %
    No, I've been with others. : (247 votes)
    60 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    He’s not my first, and I’m glad he isn’t.  I like to be able to compare ๐Ÿ˜›

    Post # 4
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    He was my first boyfriend, so yes.  ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 5
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    1110 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2009

    Not my first & I am a little sad about that.

    Post # 6
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    He’s my third. I wish he was my second because I did a stupid thing that I regret lol. But I’m glad I have something to compare him to!! lol This way I can truly appreciate how awesome he is ๐Ÿ˜›

    Post # 7
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    1585 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Not my first… super happy because I found exactly what I needed.  I never regret anything from the past.

    Post # 8
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    1813 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I wasn’t his first, but I lost my virginity on our wedding night.

    Post # 9
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Not my first at all.  We didn’t meet until I was 24.  I’m glad he wasn’t as it gave me something to compare to, and opportunities to pick up tricks and skills, (hehe).  Also I feel like I sowed my wild oats and don’t feel like I’m missing out on anything or wondering what else is out there. 

    Post # 10
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    2201 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Not my first, but since I’m almost 30, I don’t feel bad about that. I’m just happy I kept it to single digits (nothing against anyone with more or less “experience”!) Innocent

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Not even close.  But I never had any interest in it being that way… one of the reasons I was never all that serious with the guy who was my first was because I didn’t want to commit when I had so little experience.  I have no regrets… even the bad decisions weren’t so bad that they don’t make great stories.

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Not my first…I always wanted to be my one and only to  be my husband…but life got in the way! :p

    Post # 14
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We’re not each others’ firsts… but we’re perfectly okay with that.  We’ll be each others’ lasts.  ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 15
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Yes, he is my first, and I am his fourth. And last.  LOL.

    Post # 16
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    461 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    There was a post before about how many (if any) previous partners you & your partner have had.

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