Post # 1
I know it’s a slow time on the Bee right now, but some of you are still up!
Just a simple question – was your wedding party even? Did you even have one? Just wondering!
Mine was not even – we had 3 girls and 2 guys. I think this horrified my mother for a short while but I wanted all 3 girls and he only has 2 close friends. We weren’t about to just ask another guy just to be filler – we wanted only our dearest friends up there with us. He’d considered asking one of my brothers, but that’s the thing, I have 2 brothers. It would have been hurtful to leave one of them out (and I love his sister, but she lives across the country and wasn’t one of my BMs).
Anyway, it all worked out! What did you have/will be having?
*Note: Bridesmen or “best women” count toward whatever side they were standing on, it doesn’t matter what gender they were/are! Also, let’s count junior BMs but not flower girls or ring bearers.
Post # 3
we will be having 3 on each side. I guess I just like it even
Post # 4
We had an even amount–3 on each side.
Post # 5
Eeek them I’m really uneven! I have Maid/Matron of Honor + 6 Bridesmaid or Best Man + 1 JBM. Fiance has his Bridesmaid or Best Man + 5 Groomsmen
The Junior Bridesmaid or Best Man will walk down by herself I suppose? (havent decided that yet!) and two of the BMs will walk down with one guy.
Post # 6
I am having a Maid/Matron of Honor, 2 bridesmaids, and a jr bridemaid, he is having a best man, 1 groomsman and a jr grooms man, but our son ( from my first mariage age 10 ) is giving me away so he will stand on Fiance side. I have all the girls walking down alone….lol I hope it works out 🙂
Post # 7
It was uneven with 4 gm and 3 bridesmaids then the week before the wedding my cousin decided to be a bridesmaid found a similar dress and we each had 4! Very last minute but I was so happy!
Post # 8
We had 4 groomsmen and 2 bridesmaids. I’m pretty OCD, but it worked out just fine. I’m not for fillers either. It’s too important of a day.
Post # 9
we are having 6 bridesmaids and 4 groomsmen.
What did you all do as far as walking down the aisle? Did you have girls walk on their own, or did some of the groomsmen double up?
Post # 10
Bump for the daytime crowd!
Post # 11
I have one less than the groom. I have 5 on my side, he has 6. No fillers for me!
Post # 13
DH had eight groomsmen and I had four bridesmaids. It’s kind of ridiculous, I could only come up with seven names of people I was remotely interested in having in the bridal party, so I just picked the four people that I’m closest to. No regrets here!
Post # 14
- Wedding: May 2020 - establishment theatre
we have 6 girls and down to 5 guys, one of them bailed….doesnt bother me lol
Post # 15
We had 4 bridesmaids and 2 groomsmen, plus two ushers. We were pretty uneven, but everything looked really nice and none of it felt forced.
Post # 16
We have 5 on each side. I’m a perfectionist and it would bug me to have it uneven!