(Closed) Way not wedding related but just need to talk to people

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

have you considered speaking to a counselor to help you with your griefing process?

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@mothercrow:

I’m sorry that you’re weren’t there at his bedside in his final hours but as an ex-girlfriend who moved on and now has a fiance, I dont’t think it was ur duty too. You called him while he was sick and spoke to him on several occassions. I think thats sufficient

It is probably a good thing that you never met up with him when you went to visit him becasue that may have been a temptation for you. Did your FH know you were planning on visiting him?

Men usually don’t like to know that their SO still cares about their ex. Maybe that why your FH is having such a hard time. He wants to know that he is all you care about.

Mr. Ex is gone now and you have someone now who loves you and cares about you. Even though you feel like Mr. ex didnt make you his priority, I bet that your FH does.

Think more fo what you have instead of think so much about what u lost. But if 2 yrs have past and you are still hurting, maybe you have not grieved properly.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Im sorry your having such a hard time with this. Maybe just go through some grief thearopy.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Ahh, its probably regret because you never got to be with him when he was not treating you with much respect during your relationship.  All you wanted to hear was that he was sorry and validate your feelings about your relationship.  But I agree you should get some counseling.  Because if you don’t let him go its going to effect your relationship with FH.

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