(Closed) way to many people!!!

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
2413 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

This is tricky. I feel like its very common knowledge that Indian weddings are quite the event…I have many Indian friends and they would consider your wedding small!! Who is paying? I mean, if it were me, and my parents were paying, I’d go along with what they want, it would seem to be easier for me to do that than upset my grandparents. Its your wedding day, but this is a day that parents and grandparents look forward to just as much.

Post # 5
1713 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Well if your parents are agreeing then Id use them as a defense. 300 people is a lot of people I think you need a limit like second or third cousins and just stick to it.

Post # 6
85 posts
Worker bee

I perfectly understand your dilemma.  Either you have to do what is traditional or make a stand.  A “small wedding of 280” would sound funny to anyone else.

Do what you want, it IS your wedding. You will never regret this, it will also set the tone for your position in the community.  

See yourselves a trailblazers, pioneers, making it ok for others to have the weddings they want in future years.  And if you and your Fiance are in agreement, nothing else matters 

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