- 4 years ago
- Wedding: March 2015
Bees, I could use your advice.
I consider this girl, let’s call her Charlotte, to be my best friend.
I don’t have a ton of friends and never have, but Charlotte and I have been friends for about 4-5 years now.
We used to call each other nearly every day (and I mean as recently as October), I helped her fiance’ get her ring size and she helped my fiance’ plan his proposal. We have both helped each other through crises and laughed together, even though after college we moved 4 hours away from each other. I was even in her wedding as a Bridesmaid or Best Man, so naturally she should be one of mine, right?
Ever since she got married and moved to another state (now 6.5 hours away) in November, I’ve heard practically nothing from her. Not for lack of trying, either: I’ve sent a few texts, tried to call, etc. Never so much that I would come off as a stalker, but most of these have gone without answer. I haven’t talked to her since November.
I’m starting to feel really rejected and hurt because it’s not like she’s super busy; she posts all the time on Facebook about watching hours of TV and browsing the internet. There have been times in the last few months where I could really use a friend and she’s never even picked up the phone.
The thing is, I’m 14 months away from my wedding and it’s time to start picking my bridal party. I just don’t know what to do!
Please help me Bees! Any advice? What the heck is going on? Sorry for the novel. :/