(Closed) We are having a honeymoon registery and YES I AM putting it in with my invites!!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

the horror the horror! Surprised

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wooooooo  Hoooooo!!!!!! You rebel you!!!  I see nothing wrong with it. It is common in this area. Enjoy!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Awesome! More power to you. I never like the ettique rules anyway. When I told people about the ettique rules I’ve read on here, people look at me as if I made them up.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@cutexkitty: Yesssssss! I tell people about the “rules” and the reaction to not following them … Its like another planet with all those rules!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

@cutexkitty: same here! I had guests actually REQUEST the registry info! I am doing both as well 🙂 lol

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I threw out the rule book the day that fmil unsolicitedly told me “your honeymoon registry is wrong and no one will like it because you are supposed to pay for your OWN honeymoon.” 

Good for you!

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

LOL – good for you! If you would rather a contribution to your honeymoon rather than cash for your wedding then speak up! 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Kudos!  I think rules against these things are stupid anyway.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Good for you! It’s nice to see someone asking for what they really want, rather than feeling pressured to register for a food mixer!

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Good for you!!! It’s so nice to see people breaking these so-called “rules” it’s your wedding, and your honeymoon, and you should do exactly what is best for you!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

i’m amazed that no one so far told her how tacky it is and how they would give you a toaster just to spite you.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I wouldn’t give you a toaster to spite you or anything like that, but you’re really posting on the etiquette board to say that you don’t like or want to follow etiquette? Regardless of what kind of registry it is, yeah it is rude and bad etiquette to put registry info on the invitations. Unless you mean your bridal shower invites – I hope you mean that and not the actual wedding invites.

I think most etiquette it pretty much just about being polite to your guests, I’m always surprised to see how bees bash it. What’s wrong with guidelines to make sure you’re being polite? I know some of them get a little crazy, but most just seem like common sense to me.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@KatyElle: Indeed! One of those people you really wonder what they would have gone on to do if given more time

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