(Closed) We bought the ring 2 months ago, but still waiting….

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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622 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Oh man…that’s like putting cotton candy in front of a 5 year old and telling them to not touch .

 I feel your pain!  Well, you guys have the ring — so all you can do is be patient and just wait for him to “officially ask”.  Let’s do some jedi-mind tricks so that he’ll propose sooner rather than later.  

Good luck honey!

Post # 4
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287 posts
Helper bee

If you can, try to drop it until August. Once the man believes you are off the scent, he’ll bring it out! 

I waited 8 months knowing my Fiance had bought my ring (he texted me to tell me!) so you haven’t been waiting that long yet!

Post # 5
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400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I would avoid Weddingbee while you’re waiting. I’m not even officially waiting yet and it makes it hard for me sometimes (all the time, like even right now)

Facebook makes it worse sometimes too.

Post # 7
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48 posts
Newbee

Im waiting too for the question:) The ring is in our home and I time to time sneak and try it on… Can’t wait to be allowed to wear it everyday. 

HLS87:  what is your ring like?

Post # 9
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425 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Private lodge

 

HLS87:  Good luck.  I knew Fiance bought my ring and didn’t last 3 weeks.  He had a really perfect romantic proposal in mind – 4 months away,  that I ruined – because I nagged.  Frankly, I wish I had let it rest. 

Maybe that can help you wait a little bit longer 🙂

Post # 10
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665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I had to wait 8 months knowing he had the ring!! It literally drove me beyond insane. Hang in there it will happen he is waiting for the perfect moment!.. Is there anything that might be holding him back (stressful job?, money, parents?) My Fiance was super stressed and thought he might be loosing his job and was his reason for waiting the 8 months until he got a new job and felt secure. Try to enjoy the suspense the second he proposes you will be super busy planning!! 

and my ring is a .75 solitaire also!

Post # 11
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330 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I too am waiting for the ring to come in. I know he has a plan and it’s down the road a few months (or so he’s hinting).  Stay strong and try to not bring it up at all.  I agree with other bees…once he thinks you’ve forgotten about it, he will pop the question!

Post # 12
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335 posts
Helper bee

I am waiting too and I feel your pain! It’s currently being custom made and I’ve met my beautiful loose diamond but he’s made the process all super secretive! Haha just try not to bug him about it especially if he wants to “surprise” you. The more you nag, the more he’ll drag! 

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