Post # 1
I haven’t been on in a while.I was Meowmixsong1121 but got an actual account.We broke up sept 16 which happened to be one day after my birthday. If no one knew,he planned to move to South
Carolina in december but it got pushed back to July. We currently live in Ohio and I didn’t want to move since I planned to finish my schooling in Ohio. He wouldn’t stay for me and he was moving there for no reason but just to move.We were also drifting apart when another guy emerged.I didn’t break up with him for someone else.This other guy we will call Z just always was there and became a good friend.I broke up with him because our relationship was beyond repair with both of our wrongdoings.We possibly could get back together but it is unlikely. Will me and Z get together in due time? Unlikely since there is a 6 year age difference.Single seems fitting for my busy life now.That is the update bees and I will hopefully be more active now
Post # 3
@misscat1121: glad you’re back 🙂 Sorry to hear about the breakup, but from the sound of it, it came at a time that was better for both of you. I wish you luck and hope you stick around.
Post # 4
I am sorry to hear about your breakup, but I hope you will keep an open mind about Z. Six years is nothing!!
Post # 5
Sorry about the break up, but you seem ok with it so that’s good. (It’s hard even when you expect or even want it).
As for Z I wouldn’t worry about 6 years; my SO and I have nearly 12 between us, it’s never been an issue (except when he freaks that he’s going a teeny weeny bit bald, bless).
Post # 6
Thank you all.I have been going through this pretty well.Just little bouts of depression here and there.
Post # 7
I’m sorry to hear that you broke up. I remember with my ex, I had moved to Texas (from Massachuesetts, but I was originally from Texas) to go to school. He was not in school, and intended to move to Austin within a year. About 8 months later I discovered that he had no intention to move, and so we broke up. If he wasn’t willing to leave nothing to be with me, he wasn’t worth my time. He had always said he hated massachusetts and wanted to live in Texas, so I knew it was a bad sign when he wouldn’t leave. If your ex-SO wouldn’t stay for you, you are much better off without him. I now am engaged and like 500x more happy, so I know it was meant to be. You will find your actual mate in time 🙂 I know I was really depressed after our break up, but you will move on eventually. Stay strong bee!
Post # 8
@MrsNerdy: Thank you so much
Post # 9
Hi, you can only meet the right one if you leave the wrong one. Don’t worry, be happy
Post # 10
You seem so strong about it:) just wanted to give ((hugs)) and support!
Post # 11
Good for you for not hanging on to a long distance relationship with him. He sounds like he’s all take and no give. Don’t worry about 6 years, Darling Husband is 6 years older than me and it’s nice to have someone more mature. I was worried what people would think at first but no one cared. Good luck to you and enjoy the single life!!