We chose to be CFBC- I'm pregnant.

posted 3 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 31
56 posts
Worker bee

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soymilk :  Ok, I never actually wanted to offend anyone and believe me i DO NOT judge anyone for what they do. I’m fairly liberal in my views and will try and see the the other person’s side of something despite what I might believe deep down. I’m especially in no position to judge when I did exactly the same as this woman and I don’t judge her. My issue was that she was being very loud and brash in her complaining and was being incredibly rude and inappropriate, especially given the nature of the situation. There were numerous women waiting and like myself they were visibly upset and distressed by the situation and also because they had to wait even longer which although was no-one’s fault, was hard as it pro-longed things. Her attitude just added to people’s distress and was very upsetting. Her blasé-mess was hard to witness as it had been such an incredibly upsetting time for me and clearly for others there.

Post # 32
1564 posts
Bumble bee

Be very, VERY sure before you make a decisions.  Some times life doesn’t give you a do-over.

Post # 33
509 posts
Busy bee

So, I would like to suggest that you and your Darling Husband at least consider the possibility that, although this definitely was not your plan, it very likely is Someone Else’s plan.

The mailman?  The milkman?  That strange neighbour across the street?  Whose plan is more important than that of the OP?

And, even though it may scare you beyond words, maybe it could actually turn out to be an amazing and wonderful plan.

Totes amazing and wonderful to piss all over the choices made by two adults.

Post # 34
530 posts
Busy bee

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hampsterdance :  Even if that bee’s attitude is different from yours, she wasn’t rude to the OP. You, on the other hand, are pissing all over her comments.

(FYI, since you clearly took the effort to copy/paste what she wrote, maybe you should reply to her directly so she can at least read your reply, don’t you think?)

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