@bRooklynRocks: I know, right!!! That’s how I feel about some of my people!
Now, a few of them are older people who I think genuinely forgot to RSVP (like FI’s great aunts) but 3 of the missing ones are from my cousins.
Just a minor backstory/rant on them:
I didn’t want to invite them, because between the 3 of them, they have like a million children. Well, 9 children. Same difference.
But, these children don’t behave. At all. One of the girls even got kicked out of her own kindergarden graduation for misbehaving.
Anyway, my mom convinced me to invite them because “They won’t come anyway”
So, I invited them, making sure to invite them plus a guest only, not including their children on the invtes. My hope was that IF they decided to come, they would at least leave the kids at home. However, I left their children as part of our total number invited, so JUST IN CASE the decided to bring them, we wouldn’t go over on our numbers.
Well, now the RSVPs are back, and guess who hasn’t RSVPed!?! These 3 sisters who I didn’t want to invite anyway!
I have messaged all of them on FB twice, and I directly messaged one of them when she was on FB chat, and all I got was “I have to check my work schedule”…. that was it.
I just want to message them all back and say “If I don’t hear from you by Monday, I assume you’re not coming.”
UGH! I need to know if they’re coming- that’s a difference of 15 people between them!