(Closed) We had an oopsie moment… Please tell me I'm doing the right thing.

posted 6 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That’s tough. I can see both sides but coming from TTC for a year and a half with no luck, I’d take whatever I could get now. Good luck with whatever decision you make!

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Take the pill. It seems like the right choice in the situation. Bad FI!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Take the pill!!! You never know!

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

There is no right or wrong answer – only what is right for you and your Fiance in this moment.  You guys need to discuss both options and see where your hearts lead you.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think you need to do what you feel is right, if you want to take the morning after pill to put your mind at ease than go ahead and take it.  This is a very personal choice and I would just do what feels right in your heart.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Morning after pill sounds like the exact right choice for you in this situation.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Also, bc aside…are you ok with what your Fiance did?  From the way you phrased it, that didn’t sound like an “oopsie;” it sounded like he intentionally violated the rules you’d agreed to.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@Pappy8:  If you’re playing odds, chances are you won’t get pregnant with that one romp. BUT if you are unready for children at this point, the morning after pill is only about $35 so it’s not breaking the bank like a baby would. 

Also, please understand that the morning after pill is not an abortive pill. If there is any question in your mind, you can read about it here: http://www.lifesitenews.com/blog/is-it-true-the-morning-after-pill-does-not-cause-abortions

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

*hugs* The first time having unprotected sex is nerve-wracking, even if you’re trying for a baby!

If a baby is not in the cards for you right now, then the morning after pill is the way to go. Take it sooner rather than later, though, as it won’t abort a pregnancy that has implanted.

This is totally yours and DH’s decision. I hope you find some peace of mind! It can be a tough call.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Taking the morning after pill is no different in my eyes than any other form of birth control.  If now is not the right time and it would save you a lot of heartache,  take it!  I am a bit confused by your story though… is your normal birth control the pull out method,  because that really puts you at risk everytime anyway!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would take the pill, to be honest. Chances are, you won’t get pregnant from just that one time.. but I wouldn’t risk it if I knew I wasn’t ready to have a child.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Take it! Just like bcp.

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