(Closed) We had to put our cat down :(

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Bumble bee

I’m so sorry for your loss  

Post # 3
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Bumble bee

  I don’t know why only one sentence came through. I wanted to tell you that you did a very unselfish thing by letting him go. He was lucky to have you as his momma his whole life. (Hugs)

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I am sorry! Just reading this made me cry off all of my makeup. :'( You did what was best and I hope you find peace with your decision.*e-hugs*

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 4 months ago by  WiredOwl.
Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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MrsJenningsToBe:  I am so very sorry for your loss. I am trying to hold myself back from crying at my desk. I am heartbroken for you and your Fiance but it sounds like you did the right thing. I know you are sad you didn’t get a moment alone with your cat but he will have KNOWN how much you loved him xxxxx

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

Kitty is at Rainbow Bridge, happy and frolicking in the heavens above,  no more pain. 

Hes in a better place, just keep thinking that.  HUGS to you and your family and fur babies.  

Sorry for your loss. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

Actually OP I think you did the best possible thing. You were there for your cat, that’s the most important thing. It’s the only thing that matters! Your cat not only had love from you, but love from your fiance. And the best way to go is surrounded by love. Don’t regret anything. You did it right! 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so so sorry for your loss, you did everything you could do. There’s nothing to do but grieve and know that he has a special place in your heart. Time is a great healer. 

Post # 9
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Helper bee

I’m so sorry for your loss – we recently had to put our cat down, and I think you did the right thing – and he must have felt so loved by you and your Fiance. Lots of love for you both xx

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I’m terribly sorry for your loss.  I was faced with making the same decision regarding my girl of 15 years in December (advanced lung cancer) and it was like my world came crashing down.  I felt guilt that I could have somehow prevented what happened and all sorts of other insane thoughts.

You made the right decision and I know it’s hard not to… but try not to doubt the way things ended, your cat knew how much you loved him.  Take some time alone and speak to him now about those special moments.  I bought a pendant after losing my girl, a beautiful glass heart.  When I want to say hello to her, I rub it and think of her fondly or speak to her.  Sure, some people might think we’re crazy but I understand where you’re coming from.

It will get better with time.. *hugs*

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

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MrsJenningsToBe:  Sorry for the loss of your fur baby. Husband’s cat crossed the rainbow bridge back in January and he still gets sad over it. I’m sure it was the right choice and treasure your memories.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

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MrsJenningsToBe:  I’m so sorry for you and your lost furbaby. Try to take some comfort in that you didn’t keep the poor thing suffering and did the right thing. It’s such a hard decision to make. Hugs to you!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I’ve sent you a message 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Guilt is a natural emotion after losing a pet you loved so much.   Please don’t beat yourself up.  You did everything right for your baby.  I’m so sorry for your loss and do NOT let non-pet…people make you feel “stupid” for grieving.  Virtual hugs to you

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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MrsJenningsToBe:  I’m very sorry for your loss. 

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