(Closed) We have a new baby and husband wants a divorce!!!!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 32
3110 posts
Sugar bee

I’m very sorry that you are in this predicament.

Make sure that you get good legal advice as soon as you can. 

You need time and support in order to decide what to do next.   




Post # 33
2203 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Make sure you change your passwords on everything- Facebook, bank accounts, anything. 

Post # 34
1156 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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@Crlove:  I am glad you are in the UK.  DO NOT TAKE YOUR CHILD TO THE STATES NO MATTER WHAT!!  YOU HOLD THE CARDS, HE DOESN’T!!  Make him come to you for all legal proceedings.

Just because he doesn’t ask about the baby, doesn’t mean he wouldn’t try something stupid.  My ex thought it would be fun to snatch my children from me.  It has been the most devistating thing that has ever happened to me.  The only reason I had custody of my children is I had filed custody where I lived 3 days before he did!!!  In the end the judge just got pissed at his game playing with the courts, and he lost custody, and visitation and it has been that way for 17 years now……he has not seen his children since.

But, I really doubt that he really wants anything to do with the baby.  He seemed to be recklessly willing to send you as far away as he could without batting an eye.  Be thankful that you are gone, and that you and your new baby have a chance at happiness.

I am so sorry you are heartbroken.  But you are already starting to heal, and I promise you YOU CAN DO THIS WITHOUT HIM!!



Post # 35
2633 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

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@FauxPas2012:  Oh I was just wondering too….hey I would be upset if someone took my dog, (I don’t have one)…but I am more upset on behalf of op for her husbands immaturity and faliure to grow up

Post # 38
31 posts

Its quite sad that he is quite happy to pick his parents over a child, that is completely innocent in all of this and didnt ask to be bought into this world. He needs to get his priorities straight, man up and get over himself.

If his parents dont like you, tough, if they dont want you to be together, and he chooses to go along with them, then fine, but DONT let this little boy ever know that his daddy picked someone else over him, because believe me, his daddy will live to regret the day he said that for the rest of his life!

Im sorry you are going through this, but it seems you are better off without him and his family. Get on with your life with your little boy, and do what is right for you both. 🙂 x

Post # 38
1 posts
  • Wedding: May 2015

I don’t know what to say..how to start..Ive never thought bad for anyone in my entire life..in India we have joint families and that means living with the parents..they were very sweet..initially..and after my daughter’s birth in 15 days I could not live a single day more with them..my husband is a total mums boy and never truly supported me..during my pregnancy..every day was hell.. wanted to commit suicide..was mentally..physically and emotionally abused

ItS been 6 mnnth haven’t seen my new born..as she was unwell too…as I refuse to go to his home and live there..were in diff cities..and he gives excuse that his work is in his City so he can’t come to my City and start Fresh.. I’m so confused..very less money per month..not allowed to work..baby is with them..grangmother is taking care..but I love her and miss her too much:(

He says he’ll come n meet me everymonth in my City and can afford this much 

Bad neverending situation..pls advice

Post # 39
8778 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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priya2016 :   Hi bee, you are commenting on a very old thread so if you nee advice you may want to start your own as many people won’t see this.

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