Post # 32
Member3110 posts
Sugar bee
- Supersleuth
- 7 years ago
I’m very sorry that you are in this predicament.
Make sure that you get good legal advice as soon as you can.
You need time and support in order to decide what to do next.
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MemberPost # 33
Member2203 posts
Buzzing bee
- PinkPinstripes
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
Make sure you change your passwords on everything- Facebook, bank accounts, anything.
Post # 34
Member1156 posts
Bumble bee
- thumpurr
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
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Just because he doesn’t ask about the baby, doesn’t mean he wouldn’t try something stupid. My ex thought it would be fun to snatch my children from me. It has been the most devistating thing that has ever happened to me. The only reason I had custody of my children is I had filed custody where I lived 3 days before he did!!! In the end the judge just got pissed at his game playing with the courts, and he lost custody, and visitation and it has been that way for 17 years now……he has not seen his children since.
But, I really doubt that he really wants anything to do with the baby. He seemed to be recklessly willing to send you as far away as he could without batting an eye. Be thankful that you are gone, and that you and your new baby have a chance at happiness.
I am so sorry you are heartbroken. But you are already starting to heal, and I promise you YOU CAN DO THIS WITHOUT HIM!!
Post # 35
Hostess2633 posts
Sugar bee
- KingsDaughter
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
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Post # 36
Member8 posts
Newbee
- Crlove
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
Well my husband wanted a family and we were trying to get pregnant for 8 moths and ten suddenly happened. I sent an email as my last attempt to reconcile and his answer was complex but he basically picks his family over us and because they written me off, he has to do the same! i understand you probably think what did I do? Let me rreassure you, I never ever disrespected his family or never ever not made them feel unwelcome. I was always loving them until I gave birth and the drama and pain and lies they caused by walking in y labor room and slamming doors and arguing during my contractions made me realise their insane and narcissistic. My therapist has explained that to me that my husband is a narcissist as he was evaluating us uring counseling. The only sad thing is, my husband has really picked his parents over me and our son! it is a shock an I feel sick to my stomach. He also claims he was running away from them and thought marrying me was his savior but he can’t be that person he was somewhat pretending to be. He has decided to be himself and find himself again. I never asked junto change and e even said you meet changed in our relationship. Ugh!!!!
Post # 37
Member8 posts
Newbee
- Crlove
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
Sorry I meant he even said I had never changed in our relationship. My phone has mis spelt things.
Post # 38
Member31 posts
Newbee
- jasperj
- 7 years ago
Its quite sad that he is quite happy to pick his parents over a child, that is completely innocent in all of this and didnt ask to be bought into this world. He needs to get his priorities straight, man up and get over himself.
If his parents dont like you, tough, if they dont want you to be together, and he chooses to go along with them, then fine, but DONT let this little boy ever know that his daddy picked someone else over him, because believe me, his daddy will live to regret the day he said that for the rest of his life!
Im sorry you are going through this, but it seems you are better off without him and his family. Get on with your life with your little boy, and do what is right for you both. 🙂 x
Post # 38
Member1 posts
Wannabee
- priya2016
- 4 years ago
- Wedding: May 2015
I don’t know what to say..how to start..Ive never thought bad for anyone in my entire life..in India we have joint families and that means living with the parents..they were very sweet..initially..and after my daughter’s birth in 15 days I could not live a single day more with them..my husband is a total mums boy and never truly supported me..during my pregnancy..every day was hell.. wanted to commit suicide..was mentally..physically and emotionally abused
ItS been 6 mnnth haven’t seen my new born..as she was unwell too…as I refuse to go to his home and live there..were in diff cities..and he gives excuse that his work is in his City so he can’t come to my City and start Fresh.. I’m so confused..very less money per month..not allowed to work..baby is with them..grangmother is taking care..but I love her and miss her too much:(
He says he’ll come n meet me everymonth in my City and can afford this muchÂ
Bad neverending situation..pls advice
Post # 39
Member8778 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
- Mrs_Beer
- 4 years ago
- Wedding: Dorset, UK
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