- 10 years ago
So Last Sunday i cooked engagment chicken, he absoloutley loved it an d said it was my best dinner yet in 6 years and that by me cooking this he kept telling me how much he loved me.
So today we went ring browsing and to get my finger sized, well we walked out of the shop 20 mins later with my new ring, initially we were looking at dimonds and he looked at the price and nearly had a heart attack, i said i dont care about a diamond as its the meaning more than anything and who will know unless we told them so i choose something blingy and i love it and thats all that matters.
I am so excited but i just have to sit down and wait for the proposal, he knows im not a fussy person so i dont care how he does it, but how he words it which will mean the world to me or expresses it.
He spoke to hiw mum the other day and dropped the bomb shell we will go to vegas and get married as he never liked attention and is a quite guy, i dont care about having a wedding here and everyone turning up waiting for us to cry out our vows???
so we are set and i finally know where im heading and i feel great again, he said if all goes well with his work bonus next year he has promised me instead of 3 years time we will go next year, so that was a shocker my mans finally no longer a commitment phobe lol.
Dont get me wrong its been a tough journey so far being together 6 years and have a 3 year old living together since 3 months into relationship.
My advise to any beautiful waiting still ladies out their is bite your tongue/cook great meals (engagament chicken- give it a go??) dont bring up the wedding/ come on here and vent/ look after yourself and spend longer on you.
If a ring is brought up and you genrally are not bothered about having a diamond tell him, he may propose sooner as he can aford to get it and not have to take it on credit or save and save, so if you not really into diamonds then say it.
This will get him thinking about where he see’s his future and that should be with you.
Just thought i would share my news and how we are nearly getting there.